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A Notice to All CDs: Would You Help Me, Please?

Greetings and happy summer! I write you from beautiful Barbados ... a long way from this Colorado girl's roots.

I would like to ask a favor of you.

Would you be willing to share your experiences with me as a crossdresser? Specifically, I want to communicate with CDs who are or have been in committed relationships with women ... women who were told or who discovered that you crossdressed. What were her fears and concerns?

I will be speaking in September at Southern Comfort; my topic is the fears wives (or SOs) have when they find out their husbands crossdress. Some fears are obvious: She fears he's gay. She fears she caused his crossdressing. Etc. If you would be willing to talk about these and any other fears your SO has had, would you please drop me a line? Anything you say to me will be held in strictest confidence, of course. Any part of your story that I share in my talk will be disguised to protect your identity.

If you'd rather talk than write, let me know and we'll arrange a phone conversation. I look forward to getting to know some of you better through this exercise, and am most grateful for your participation in my research on this topic.

I thank you and look forward to meeting any of the URNA community who attend SCC.

All best regards,
Jane Vargas, Ph.D.


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