When a lover has a big skeleton in the closet

MSNBC.MSN.com – By Brian Alexander – MSNBC contributor

Should a woman call it quits after finding out her husband-to-be once had a wild time with a transvestite? Any suggestions for what to call a guy during sex? Should a woman be shushed in the sack? And can ecstasy be nauseating?

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Q: Recently a long-time mutual friend told me that my boyfriend of four years paid to receive oral sex from a transvestite during a spring-break vacation back in college. I cannot put this new information out of my head…