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Seriously? Oh for fucks sake!

Sometimes, you just have to wonder what people are smoking. We recently had a back and forth exchange with a very confused and very angry lady.

She made the baseless assertion that URNA was "selling her photos" as a "shemale". It's amazing what the addled mind can come up with sometimes.

Apparently transvestites and cross dressers are "homosexual perverts" and not worthy of being in the transgendered community. After making several threats to sue us, she finally resorted to name calling.

Here is the body of her last email:


And by the way, this goes a lot deeper than just MY photos. I personally don't care what a crossdressing homosexual closet pervert like you thinks about me. But you should know that the reason this came to my attention in the first place is because there is a thread going in one of the major transsexual womens forums, all about you and your sickening disgusting site, and you are being trashed big time. It was brought to my attention that you have been spreading my photos, and the photos of many of the other girls around the internet and referring to us as "shemales". Clearly, you have no respect for us, and sadly don't even know the difference between a transsexual and a transvestite.

Your site is nothing more than a transvestite, cross dresser, sicko pervert site, and will never amount to anything among the respectable transsexual community. I am personally making sure that the thread keeps propagating and spreads to other transgendered forums so that the world knows what a sick asshole you are.

You have had your fun with my photos, and the photos of many of my friends. Now its our turn.

Goodbye asshole!


So remember. You are nothing more than sicko perverts according to Pamela Philips (aka Feral Cat) You should send her an email and thank her for marginalizing experiences that are not her own. lil_flower@cybergal.com

Thanks Pamela! Yours is the type of mindset that is holding our advancement as a community back. Just remember. Invalidating other people's experience means that your experience runs the same risk.

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  • Carrie Klein 12/04/2007 20:18 To answer Erica's question about where this thing got started. It seems there was a discussion on the Genderlife forum, that was not very flattering to URNA that prompted Pam to go off the deep end. Apparently that's where Ms Feral hangs out. Genderlife is a part of Andrea James and Calpernea Adams' site, but don't blame them. Like this site, Jon and Dan aren't responsible for what people say on their own.
  • Erica 12/04/2007 16:48 Speaking personally I have derived so much support and understanding from this site, if someone made money off my photo's I would be 1) amazed and 2) actually find it amusing to be exploited in this way. Pam doesn't seem to want to join in this little debate all about her - shame - I have yet to see anything on any of the other forums showing URNA in a negative light, and by the way, to any members of the gay community reading this thread, I am embarrassed that this minority of one has chosen such bigoted ignorance. I am not going to send Pam my views - she is to be pitied - nothing more.
  • Tiffany Storm 12/03/2007 13:33 Why is there so much energy being put into this 1 persons beliefs and comments ? ....I have a really hard time reading all these comments and remarks about 1 persons Ideas and thoughts that are supposedly are not valid.?We've all heard the old saying "sticks and stones can break my bones."..Call me whatever you want just don't call me late for dinner;) ... Peace
  • Grace Harvey 12/03/2007 10:38 Brings to mind one of my psychology professor's definition of perversion:"It's what the other guy does." I am so happy that the TSs in my therapy group embrace this lowly, sicko, pervert crossdresser.

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